November 2011

A new way of thinking

November 30, 2011

A friend (female, of course) said to me the other day, “think about it from my perspective”.  As I considered her words I started to think about everything I do from a woman’s perspective. Let me play out a common scenario: I meet a girl, usually through mutual friends, we hit it off, we get [...]

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Friends with benefits

November 29, 2011

This term can be very misleading. When a man has this contract with a woman it makes him feel like he has struck gold. The first couple of times hanging out and fulfilling the contract are good. Then the woman starts getting emotional and wants to modify or destroy the contract. Women think they will [...]

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Have you ever had that real love from a woman?

November 28, 2011

I’m talking about that amazing love. That  love that makes you smile when you wake up and dream about at night. It’s like a fix you need and that she’s willing to give without hesitation. Her love is never forced, its organic in nature. She makes you want to live and fulfill your purpose in [...]

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The shiny new toy syndrome

November 27, 2011

I have had lots of monogamous/committed/happy relationships over the years. But the pattern was always the same. We start out great, happy, get along, then she changes and we start to have moments when the relationship feels more like work than fun and then it falls apart. We followed the “healthy relationship” recipe: communicate, share, [...]

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Why can’t men tell the truth?

November 26, 2011

I have a female friend (who I am not sleeping with) and she knows all about my player ways. And although she is my closest female friend and my confidant I still don’t tell her everything. I leave out little details unless she asks. I don’t tell her who I’m with each night; I don’t [...]

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Can an open relationship succeed?

November 25, 2011

Every player wants one thing: women. Not one woman to love, honor and cherish till death do us part, nope, multiple women to love, honor, and feed the player’s ego. Most players approach life thinking that they’re the best catch in the sea and any woman would love to be with them. Its possibly true, [...]

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I thought it was something, then I found out it was nothing

November 24, 2011

50 cent said, “When I got with Vivica I thought it was something and then I found out it was nothing.” No one knows what they truly want, but we all want to find the one. Is the one really out there? Do we truly know what we want? No one really knows. We’re all trying to [...]

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Caspers room

November 23, 2011

This is for all the men that think the woman they love is with the wrong guy. This post is a play of Drake’s song, called Marvin’s Room. Forget the dude that you think you found! You know you can do better! You chose him over me? Just because our time frames are different! You said you [...]

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She busted all the windows out of my car

November 22, 2011

When I came home one morning from a really good night, I noticed that all the windows were broken out of my car. I was so mad that I had this following conversation with myself. Are you serious? What would make you so mad that you BUST ALL THE WINDOWS OUT OF MY CAR? We are not together anymore. [...]

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When you miss your ex

November 21, 2011

I am having a moment right now, where I am missing my ex. We all have those moments when we wish it could have worked out, but for some reason or another it didn’t. If I could talk to her right now I would say: Why did you have to give me a ultimatum? You know [...]

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