July 2012

Men are like hotels — choose wisely

July 31, 2012

A friend shared this with me today…too true: What’s the difference between a five-star hotel and an inexpensive motel? They both have a bed and a bathroom, of course, but that’s where the similarity ends. In a cheap motel you get the bare minimum: beyond a place to sleep and freshen up, you will be [...]

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Love is like a narcotic…..

July 30, 2012

“Love is like a narcotic. At first it brings the euphoria of complete surrender. The next day, you want more. You’re not addicted yet, but you like the sensation, and you think you can still control things. You think about the person you love for two minutes, and forget them for three hours. But then [...]

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How long would you wait for your true love to come back? (Dirty Vegas / Days Go By)

July 29, 2012

Always love it when I stumble across this….the track is hot but the video is hotter. Every time I watch this I have to wonder how long would you wait? And, if she was the one why did you ever let her leave? Check out the old school dance moves as he waits for ‘the [...]

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Between Fifty Shades, Channing Tatum and My Player this is one hot summer

July 29, 2012

Many women this summer have read Fifty Shades and then tried to turn their man into Christian Gray. These same women have flooded theaters to see Channing Tatum sex up the screen and then get their man at home to move that like. These women are quickly discovering that their man isn’t as sexy as [...]

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What happens when you marry a player?

July 28, 2012

I was out with my player tonight and we were discussing a friend and his relationship with his wife. This friend’s wife cheated on him three times with three different men. And our friend took her back every time. We also found out that she is with our friend just for his money. And again [...]

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Should I stay with my player or walk away?

July 27, 2012

If you’ve read my last few posts you know that my player is chasing again. And this pain is slowing killing me emotionally. But I had an epiphany tonight. And, I feel slightly better than I have in days. There is now no doubt in my mind why he was brought into MY life. I [...]

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Would you let your man cheat for 30 days and still be in love with him?

July 26, 2012

I agreed today for my player to have carte blanche over the next month. To date, dine, sex whoever he pleases. (What the fuck did I just agree to?) I will be honest: I don’t want to be doing this, but this is what he wants. See, we had made a commitment to each other [...]

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I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you

July 25, 2012

“I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.” -Paolo Coelho (The Alchemist) While I wish I was brilliant enough to create that quote on my own, it nonetheless represents how I feel about my player. There is love and there is love that you cannot control. It has a mind [...]

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How to love a player – no matter what happens

July 24, 2012

Life happens. It’s unavoidable. Sometimes we get busy with work, sometimes we have family situations that require our attention. In these moments we must remember the following: Find time to love each other Find time to remind each other of how significant you are to one another Find a way to keep things exciting and [...]

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Arguments are never just about the number of condoms in the drawer

July 23, 2012

My player and I had a discussion today about the number of condoms in his condom drawer. He was annoyed that I would not believe him when he said that one isn’t missing and that he isn’t sexing around. The irony in all of this is that I do believe he isn’t sexing beyond what [...]

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