Players know better than anyone the emotional and often irrational behavior their women can display. But if you hear it enough you will believe it too: women aren’t crazy; they’re just bipolar.

Sometimes life is good and you don’t want to change it….

October 12, 2012

Most of my post over the last year have been about changing this and changing that. I have written countless posts of how my friends fill my head with nonsense about people I date and then how their comments trigger insecurities within my relationships resulting in drama. But I have stopped talking to my friends [...]

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Haters love to talk trash

September 20, 2012

I’m exhausted and fed-up with haters of my relationships. Some people cannot understand how a black man and a white woman could be so close as friends. They look at us and assume one must be taking advantage of the other. They look at us and cannot fathom that we are best friends solely because [...]

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Chad Johnson = Domestic violence (Basketball Wives)

August 21, 2012
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He cheated and you forgave him….but you’re not really over it!

August 13, 2012

My friend was telling me that her husband cheated and she caught him and they worked it out and he left his mistress and she forgives him. She says this as if she means it, but I know she doesn’t. I believe that deep in her heart she WANTS to forgive him, but her actions [...]

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What happens when you marry a player?

July 28, 2012

I was out with my player tonight and we were discussing a friend and his relationship with his wife. This friend’s wife cheated on him three times with three different men. And our friend took her back every time. We also found out that she is with our friend just for his money. And again [...]

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I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you

July 25, 2012

“I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.” -Paolo Coelho (The Alchemist) While I wish I was brilliant enough to create that quote on my own, it nonetheless represents how I feel about my player. There is love and there is love that you cannot control. It has a mind [...]

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Some days I think my player isn’t in love with me….

July 18, 2012

My player will probably read this post title and be annoyed because we have already had this discussion (twice) and we have worked out that he is in love with me (and I believe him). If you have doubt then talk it out. Here is a quick recap of the doubts I had: There are [...]

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Difference between black women & white women

July 14, 2012

Black women won’t have food 80% of the time for you to eat when you visit their house. White women will have food at least 98% for you to eat when you visit their house. Black women will buy sale items for themselves, then tell you that you should go because there are good deals. [...]

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Shut up…..and listen (post by Aimee)

June 24, 2012

Last night I was in a situation where my friend said something that hurt me. Had I stopped and listened I would have resolved and moved on immediately. Instead I opened my mouth and took the discussion to a new and unnecessary level. What I discovered is that my friend was struggling. He was drowning [...]

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Be consistent not moody (post by Aimee)

June 6, 2012

There is a lot you can do to make your current relationship better than it already is. Don’t hide your deeper feelings away in a quiet corner of your heart. Share them. Then you won’t be frustrated that your partner doesn’t know. Drop the defenses that you created in order to stop from being hurt. [...]

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