Follow a player on the journey of self-discovery as he serial dates looking for Mrs. Right; one women to get him to marry and settle down. This blog will end with his marriage.

Are you a serial monogamist?

January 22, 2012

A serial monogamist is a person who spends as little time as possible single. They move from the end of one relationship to the beginning of a new relationship as quickly as they can. A serial monogamist likes the emotional and physical intimacy of relationships and therefore seeks partners who want a longterm romantic relationship. [...]

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Ultimatums

December 28, 2011

Ultimatums seem to occur every 15 minutes, 365 days a year for most men. Most of the time marriage ultimatums come after years of being in a relationship and not being engaged. Marriage is scary to most guys. I disagree with the whole idea of forcing marriage. This can only lead to dark days after the wedding day. If [...]

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A player has to open his heart to love

November 17, 2011
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I’m single

November 8, 2011

I woke up this morning with the Lil Wayne song on my mind, “I’m single”. Being single can put you in different moods. One day your happy and next day your sad. A Happy Day is when you meet someone who you can potential have a friendship, relationship or be intimate with. The happiness feeling is [...]

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The Ring

November 4, 2011

Come on! Really? Does the ring make a difference once it’s on your finger? Why is the ring so important? Even if a man engages you, he may still not marry you Even if you get the ring he can still cheat Women don’t miss out on a good man just because he won’t give [...]

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Can a player ever truly be married?

November 3, 2011

Any woman who has ever dated a player and wanted a commitment only to be left standing alone and confused knows the answer to this question: Can a player ever truly be married? Any player who has ever been confronted by his lover about being in a serious relationship, felt his heart race and broke [...]

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21 questions a man should ask a women before they get married

October 31, 2011

Inspiration for this post came from the 50 Cent song, 21 Questions. If I told you I had a bad day, would you come over and cook? If I told you my nationality was not the same as yours, would you still like me? If I told you I didn’t want to get married, would [...]

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I’ll change she says

October 24, 2011

I’ll change she says. She says, she will be there for me in every way. She says, she will be cool with me doing what I need to do. She says, she will wait for me while I get it together. But how long will this last? How many days, weeks and months before she [...]

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Make up your mind

October 23, 2011

“Life is stressful enough without waiting around for someone to figure there sh*t out.  Are we or aren’t we going to get married?” This is  a saying a man hears from every woman in a serious relationship. When women talk about marriage, they get frustrated and  fire off these series of questions. Why? Why marriage? Why [...]

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