If you do any of these things the first time you meet a woman then you are NOT a player. And, if you don’t feel like you need to change then just stay home, don’t even bother going to the club, party or bar. The average woman is not attracted to this:
- You joke about murdering people
- You talk about a sex vacation you just took with another woman
- You can’t explain your job; you are shady about what you do
- You try to arm wrestle the girl you are hitting up
- You talk about another woman’s body, in detail
- Your stories have major inconsistencies; you get caught lying
- You talk about vandalizing the bar, house or club you are at
- You punch or push the girl you are hitting up
- You only talk about negative things in your life; nothing positive ever happens to you
- You grab your friend’s head and tell the girl you are hitting up to give him a noogie
- You put your arm around the girl and hold on so tight she can’t get away
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Do not do any of these things. Women will know you are not a player. They will think you look like a tool. These things are not charming, they are not sexy, they are not what women want. They are a turn off and you will lose the girl before you ever had her.
