Everyone always says “it all works out in the end”. What this means to me is that we either begin to accept the pain which or we fix the issue. The end comes to us when we are ready…we don’t go to the end.
Dating a player forces that person to ask themselves if they are happy. Its a continuous process of checking-in and taking stock in what is important. I have never met a woman who dated a player and was truly happy. They try to convince me that they have it under control and that they are communicating or that he is unique, but in the end it end when they finally leave the player (or the player leaves them) they all end up being okay. Why? Because they went inside themselves and they took on the challenge that was holding them down. They faced their fear of leaving the player and came out stronger on the other side (in other words: they reached the end…when they were ready).
If you are currently with a player you have a choice…you always have a choice. And when you are ready for it to end then the end will come to you.
Everything will be okay in the end. If things are not okay then it’s not the end.
- Paolo Coelho