Everything changes, especially relationships and if you don’t let them evolve, you run the risk of destroying them.
This is true with our family members as well as with our lovers. We need to keep communicating, continue talking, work through the tough issues that we keep sweeping under the rug. We have to respect each other when we do this and we have to understand, accept and learn from each other.
My player has opened up more to me and I am beginning to understand how he was raised and why he believes some of what he believes about relationships with women. As I understand it, I begin to accept it. He is a product of what he was taught and observed. This relationship with me is so important to him that he is trying to change and evolve for us as well as for himself. As he does this it makes me want to change and evolve for us too. For now, I am continuing to love him even with the other women. If he keeps for this relationship so will I. We keep it alive together.