Cheating

Sometimes life is good and you don’t want to change it….

October 12, 2012

Most of my post over the last year have been about changing this and changing that. I have written countless posts of how my friends fill my head with nonsense about people I date and then how their comments trigger insecurities within my relationships resulting in drama. But I have stopped talking to my friends [...]

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Men always get caught

September 12, 2012

I have a friend who lies constantly and thinks no one knows the truth. But I found out the truth about this friend’s lie and it has helped me realize the kind of person this friend really is. I understand his inner core and his moral fiber better than ever. I see that his insecurity, [...]

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How to stop sleeping with a playa and just be friends

September 8, 2012

Most women find that you can love a player more deeply as a friend then you can as a boyfriend. As a friend only, you can appreciate all the good and ignore or understand all the bad. There are no expectations and therefore there is no pain. As a boyfriend most women expect: respect, honesty, [...]

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He cheated and you forgave him….but you’re not really over it!

August 13, 2012

My friend was telling me that her husband cheated and she caught him and they worked it out and he left his mistress and she forgives him. She says this as if she means it, but I know she doesn’t. I believe that deep in her heart she WANTS to forgive him, but her actions [...]

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New ebook: Why Do Men Cheat?

August 6, 2012

Everyone is cheating today! In this book, Casper Flash Jones focuses on why men cheat based on his experiences and his friend’s experiences. Casper Flash will break down the Why, the How, the When, and the Where. He will even discuss how to stop your man from cheating, how to protect yourself and what your [...]

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How not to get caught cheating

August 5, 2012

Not getting caught for a guy is all in his mind. His mind is strong and filled with being very cocky. He is very outspoken and has swagger. The key thing is that he is not afraid of being caught.  If he’s out with another woman and sees his main chick or her friend he [...]

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Should I stay with my player or walk away?

July 27, 2012

If you’ve read my last few posts you know that my player is chasing again. And this pain is slowing killing me emotionally. But I had an epiphany tonight. And, I feel slightly better than I have in days. There is now no doubt in my mind why he was brought into MY life. I [...]

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Would you let your man cheat for 30 days and still be in love with him?

July 26, 2012

I agreed today for my player to have carte blanche over the next month. To date, dine, sex whoever he pleases. (What the fuck did I just agree to?) I will be honest: I don’t want to be doing this, but this is what he wants. See, we had made a commitment to each other [...]

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Arguments are never just about the number of condoms in the drawer

July 23, 2012

My player and I had a discussion today about the number of condoms in his condom drawer. He was annoyed that I would not believe him when he said that one isn’t missing and that he isn’t sexing around. The irony in all of this is that I do believe he isn’t sexing beyond what [...]

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What to do when an EX comes back into your life

July 21, 2012

I got a call tonight from an ex that I haven’t heard from in over a year. He was a hottie that I dated in my early 20s and lost track of when I moved to NYC. He moved to Europe and is back in the states and interested in getting together. So what does [...]

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