Dating

Difference between a black and white woman when it comes to money

November 17, 2012

All scenarios are from a guys perspective: Scenario 1: Had to put my car in the shop. And it cost me over $2,000.00: Black Woman: Sorry babe! It’s always something. White Woman: I can give 500 or 1,000 to help, hon. Scenario 2: If you go to dinner often with her: Black Woman: Babe! I [...]

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Sometimes life is good and you don’t want to change it….

October 12, 2012

Most of my post over the last year have been about changing this and changing that. I have written countless posts of how my friends fill my head with nonsense about people I date and then how their comments trigger insecurities within my relationships resulting in drama. But I have stopped talking to my friends [...]

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Why do you keep the truth from your ex?

September 16, 2012

I met my player’s ex-girlfriend and instead of telling her that the relationship he shares with me is important, amazing, and powerful he said we’re just friends. Why would someone not tell the truth (the full truth) unless they thought they had something to lose. People lie out of FEAR. That’s what happened here too. [...]

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How to stop sleeping with a playa and just be friends

September 8, 2012

Most women find that you can love a player more deeply as a friend then you can as a boyfriend. As a friend only, you can appreciate all the good and ignore or understand all the bad. There are no expectations and therefore there is no pain. As a boyfriend most women expect: respect, honesty, [...]

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Never go out on your first date after church with a black woman

August 20, 2012

Last week I was eating dinner with my boy and my best friend. My boy was telling me prior to that week that he met this amazing woman in the dentist office. He was just going for a regular check-up and to his surprise this woman was just hired as the receptionist. He felt an amazing vibe [...]

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Top 5 things a woman should never do on a date

August 19, 2012

Going out on a date is cool, if you’re lucky to pick the right person. Over the past year I have dated some dumb ass women. They say and do stupid shit before, during and after the date. Women can be so superficial at times. Most of them are selfish and assume that a man will take [...]

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Don’t ever expect your player to give you anything

August 2, 2012

Will I stay with my player or let the relationship go?  So much of this confusion is my issue. My player is happy: he gets his cake (i.e. main chick) and gets to eat it too (i.e. side chick). But, I have expectations of him. I have a desire for him to respect me and [...]

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I’m sticking with it until the end

July 22, 2012

Everyone always says “it all works out in the end”. What this means to me is that we either begin to accept the pain which or we fix the issue. The end comes to us when we are ready…we don’t go to the end. Dating a player forces that person to ask themselves if they [...]

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Relationships evolve…..even with a player

July 19, 2012

Everything changes, especially relationships and if you don’t let them evolve, you run the risk of destroying them. This is true with our family members as well as with our lovers. We need to keep communicating, continue talking, work through the tough issues that we keep sweeping under the rug. We have to respect each [...]

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Nandoism.com

July 6, 2012

Nandoism.com (@nandoism) is a dating and relationship site that is worth a visit. Nando, the HBIC (head blogger in charge), has a fun and unique style and we are big supporters of all that he does. Stop by & check out some of his work or follow him on twitter. Tell him Casper Flash Jones [...]

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