Friends

What dreams mean

October 14, 2012

I have been having a recurring dream that has been horrible and terrifying. I talked to some people who understand how the subconscious brain works and they explained to me the following: 1. During our wakened state of being, meaning during the day when we are at work or out with friends, we have too [...]

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Sometimes life is good and you don’t want to change it….

October 12, 2012

Most of my post over the last year have been about changing this and changing that. I have written countless posts of how my friends fill my head with nonsense about people I date and then how their comments trigger insecurities within my relationships resulting in drama. But I have stopped talking to my friends [...]

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Haters love to talk trash

September 20, 2012

I’m exhausted and fed-up with haters of my relationships. Some people cannot understand how a black man and a white woman could be so close as friends. They look at us and assume one must be taking advantage of the other. They look at us and cannot fathom that we are best friends solely because [...]

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Coming to terms with your ex

September 19, 2012

I was chatting with a friend today and realized something about my ex. Some days I think we should get back together. These are usually days when we are getting along and laughing together. I stat to reflect on all of the great moments we shared. I think to myself how awesome it would be [...]

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Men always get caught

September 12, 2012

I have a friend who lies constantly and thinks no one knows the truth. But I found out the truth about this friend’s lie and it has helped me realize the kind of person this friend really is. I understand his inner core and his moral fiber better than ever. I see that his insecurity, [...]

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Being set up on a blind date (post by Aimee)

June 12, 2012

My friend is setting me up on a blind date and I am not looking forward to this. I have a problem where I cannot say no to blind dates. A part of me wants to run from this (but I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings) and another part is morbidly curious to see [...]

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If everyone tells me my player is no good….can they all be wrong? (post by Aimee)

June 10, 2012

My four closest friends have all given me an earful that my player (remember, I am his side chick) is no good and I should move on without him. In fact, here is a list of posts resulting from all of their advice: Climax, Fall out of love with a player, Friends advice, Mistress or [...]

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Players can’t commit – 10 questions to ask yourself if you’ve fallen in love with a player (post by Aimee)

June 8, 2012

If you are dating a player and hope he will commit then ask yourself these questions: 1. How many times have you told your friends you are in love with him and that he loves you as if saying it out loud makes it more true? 2. Have you had to explain to your friends [...]

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If you’re not getting any ass, it must be your shoes

June 3, 2012

Change those ugly ass shoes player! I was with my boy the other day and I finally got fed up with his shoe game. His shoes are hideous. I call them boat shoes. I suggested that he should use his money for shoes instead of drinks. He looked at me and laughed and ignored me. [...]

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No amount of money can buy something this amazing (post by Aimee)

June 2, 2012

I have a best friend who, for reasons I don’t understand, stands by me during the good times and the bad times. This friend has been struggling to stay afloat while his life undergoes dramatic and life-altering changes; and, while all of that is happening he has managed to remain strong for me while my [...]

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