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How to love a player – no matter what happens

July 24, 2012

Life happens. It’s unavoidable. Sometimes we get busy with work, sometimes we have family situations that require our attention. In these moments we must remember the following: Find time to love each other Find time to remind each other of how significant you are to one another Find a way to keep things exciting and [...]

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Relationships evolve…..even with a player

July 19, 2012

Everything changes, especially relationships and if you don’t let them evolve, you run the risk of destroying them. This is true with our family members as well as with our lovers. We need to keep communicating, continue talking, work through the tough issues that we keep sweeping under the rug. We have to respect each [...]

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Some days I think my player isn’t in love with me….

July 18, 2012

My player will probably read this post title and be annoyed because we have already had this discussion (twice) and we have worked out that he is in love with me (and I believe him). If you have doubt then talk it out. Here is a quick recap of the doubts I had: There are [...]

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A REAL MAN

July 15, 2012

A REAL MAN can only love one way and that is unconditional A REAL MAN knows when to provide emotional support A REAL MAN knows when to listen A REAL MAN is a protector A REAL MAN knows when to be home A REAL MAN knows how to care for kids even when they are [...]

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Players can’t commit – 10 questions to ask yourself if you’ve fallen in love with a player (post by Aimee)

June 8, 2012

If you are dating a player and hope he will commit then ask yourself these questions: 1. How many times have you told your friends you are in love with him and that he loves you as if saying it out loud makes it more true? 2. Have you had to explain to your friends [...]

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Trust, Respect, Honesty…Three words more powerful than I Love You (post by Aimee)

May 19, 2012

Any woman who has dated a player knows this is true: Trust, Respect, Honesty are more powerful than saying “I love you”. There are so many times that I have had a guy tell me “I love you so much” yet he cannot be trusted, he isn’t honest and he is constantly disrespectful.  When I [...]

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One in a million

March 28, 2012

We have to be the one in the million to learn from our mistakes. We have to be the one in the million to learn how to love. We have to be the one in the million to learn how to live day by day. We have to be the one in the million to [...]

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Do women want men to be honest?

January 17, 2012

Do women want their men to be honest? Do women really want to hear the truth? Sometimes men think women don’t want to hear the truth, but in reality this is exactly what they want. While it is true they cannot always handle it in the moment (it usually comes with drama and crying), in [...]

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The shiny new toy syndrome

November 27, 2011

I have had lots of monogamous/committed/happy relationships over the years. But the pattern was always the same. We start out great, happy, get along, then she changes and we start to have moments when the relationship feels more like work than fun and then it falls apart. We followed the “healthy relationship” recipe: communicate, share, [...]

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