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Battle of wills

September 24, 2012

What do you do when you both want different things in your relationship? Options: 1. End the relationship as friends and move on 2. Listen and understand the person’s need and accommodate them I am in a situation where I want something different than my player does. He and I talked about his fear and [...]

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New ebook: Why Do Men Cheat?

August 6, 2012

Everyone is cheating today! In this book, Casper Flash Jones focuses on why men cheat based on his experiences and his friend’s experiences. Casper Flash will break down the Why, the How, the When, and the Where. He will even discuss how to stop your man from cheating, how to protect yourself and what your [...]

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How not to get caught cheating

August 5, 2012

Not getting caught for a guy is all in his mind. His mind is strong and filled with being very cocky. He is very outspoken and has swagger. The key thing is that he is not afraid of being caught.  If he’s out with another woman and sees his main chick or her friend he [...]

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Aimee Lane says goodbye

August 4, 2012

I’m not leaving the blog (what would you all do without me?). I’m not breaking up with my player (what would he do without me?). I am leaving the country for a vaca. I am off to Paris for a few weeks and I am leaving today. Yay! I am going with friends which means [...]

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I conducted an experiment with my player….and it was horrible

August 3, 2012

Here was my experiment: For 7 days I did not react to anything he told me. No matter what it was, I loved him unconditionally and did not change my voice or my tone. I would then have a calm unemotional conversation about whatever it was he just told me, especially if it did bother [...]

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Is the side chick always jealous of the main chick?

August 3, 2012

My player thinks this is the case with me. He thinks that all of the stuff I keep bringing up regarding our relationship is related to her. I wouldn’t call it jealousy per se, but he is correct that I am tired of only having half of him. I have reached a point where I [...]

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I am done sexing my player (maybe)

August 2, 2012

If you know one thing about me know that I love to sex my player. But, I am getting to a point where I don’t want to anymore. It is a weird feeling, but I think the desire is dwindling. The sex is amazing when it happens, but that’s the catch “when it happens”. He [...]

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Can 1 player be IN LOVE with 3 women at the same time?

August 1, 2012

The follow-up question to that is: can I be stupid enough to stay with a player who is in love with two other women? Apparently the answer is “Yes! I can be stupid enough.” My player who has a girlfriend (aka the main chick) is, as he claims, in love with her. Fair enough. I [...]

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How to love a player – no matter what happens

July 24, 2012

Life happens. It’s unavoidable. Sometimes we get busy with work, sometimes we have family situations that require our attention. In these moments we must remember the following: Find time to love each other Find time to remind each other of how significant you are to one another Find a way to keep things exciting and [...]

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Arguments are never just about the number of condoms in the drawer

July 23, 2012

My player and I had a discussion today about the number of condoms in his condom drawer. He was annoyed that I would not believe him when he said that one isn’t missing and that he isn’t sexing around. The irony in all of this is that I do believe he isn’t sexing beyond what [...]

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