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Battle of wills

September 24, 2012

What do you do when you both want different things in your relationship? Options: 1. End the relationship as friends and move on 2. Listen and understand the person’s need and accommodate them I am in a situation where I want something different than my player does. He and I talked about his fear and [...]

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Five things every man should know about women

September 6, 2012

Women love sex just as much as men Women fear other women as a threat until they get to know them Women must be reassured every day Women care too much about the littlest things Women love a successful man. Check out my new book, Success in 4000 Words: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0096J6Z96/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_wjtsqb15TDABD via @amazon

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How to make your spirit orgasm

August 18, 2012

While on twitter. I stumbled across this great article written by (@BeRealBlack4Me): http://www.bootiesbooksandtheblues.blogspot.com/2012/06/oversimplification-of-sexual-energy.html I got this great line from the article above: “but in order to make your spirit cum, the physical climax is just one, ancillary, aspect of the experience. Spiritual arousal is that connection two people share even before they have met, that endures even [...]

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The power of multiple sex positions

August 12, 2012

I didn’t realize how much women like multiple sex positions. Women often say to me, “my past men never put me in as many sexual positions as you. It turns me on and I love it.”  I love to hear  these statements. Recently I started to equate sex to working out in the gym. I [...]

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Relationships evolve…..even with a player

July 19, 2012

Everything changes, especially relationships and if you don’t let them evolve, you run the risk of destroying them. This is true with our family members as well as with our lovers. We need to keep communicating, continue talking, work through the tough issues that we keep sweeping under the rug. We have to respect each [...]

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Some days I think my player isn’t in love with me….

July 18, 2012

My player will probably read this post title and be annoyed because we have already had this discussion (twice) and we have worked out that he is in love with me (and I believe him). If you have doubt then talk it out. Here is a quick recap of the doubts I had: There are [...]

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How to be the perfect side chick

July 16, 2012

I’ve learned a few things to get me closer to perfection for my player: 1. Always remember you don’t get holidays or birthdays with your player. These are reserved for the main chick. 2. You have to look good. Real good — all the time. Your hair, makeup, clothes, shoes, waxings, nails, teeth, jewelry, apartment/house, [...]

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Difference between black women & white women

July 14, 2012

Black women won’t have food 80% of the time for you to eat when you visit their house. White women will have food at least 98% for you to eat when you visit their house. Black women will buy sale items for themselves, then tell you that you should go because there are good deals. [...]

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Ten ways to know if a guy is in love with you

July 12, 2012

Women often wonder if a guy is really in love with them. People define love different ways. I think it’s pretty easy. A person is in love with someone if they don’t give up on them. They see the true essence of the person and only want the best for them. That type of in [...]

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Why do we date the same type of guy/girl over and over and over? (post by Aimee)

June 30, 2012

Have you noticed a pattern with the type of boyfriend/girlfriend you pick or end up with? There is a reason. One guy says that he always ends up with women who are controlling or domineering and take over running his life. One woman says she always picks men who are unavailable, whether emotionally (aka 50 [...]

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