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How to stop sleeping with a playa and just be friends

September 8, 2012

Most women find that you can love a player more deeply as a friend then you can as a boyfriend. As a friend only, you can appreciate all the good and ignore or understand all the bad. There are no expectations and therefore there is no pain. As a boyfriend most women expect: respect, honesty, [...]

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Things you shouldn’t do to pick up a girl up in the library

August 9, 2012

I just witnessed a guy trying to pick up a girl in the library. I was in a row of desks that have internet access. The girl he was trying to pick up was to my right. He was sitting directly in front of her, blocked by the monitor. I saw him stand up and [...]

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How not to get caught cheating

August 5, 2012

Not getting caught for a guy is all in his mind. His mind is strong and filled with being very cocky. He is very outspoken and has swagger. The key thing is that he is not afraid of being caught.  If he’s out with another woman and sees his main chick or her friend he [...]

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I conducted an experiment with my player….and it was horrible

August 3, 2012

Here was my experiment: For 7 days I did not react to anything he told me. No matter what it was, I loved him unconditionally and did not change my voice or my tone. I would then have a calm unemotional conversation about whatever it was he just told me, especially if it did bother [...]

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Is the side chick always jealous of the main chick?

August 3, 2012

My player thinks this is the case with me. He thinks that all of the stuff I keep bringing up regarding our relationship is related to her. I wouldn’t call it jealousy per se, but he is correct that I am tired of only having half of him. I have reached a point where I [...]

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Don’t ever expect your player to give you anything

August 2, 2012

Will I stay with my player or let the relationship go?  So much of this confusion is my issue. My player is happy: he gets his cake (i.e. main chick) and gets to eat it too (i.e. side chick). But, I have expectations of him. I have a desire for him to respect me and [...]

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Men are like hotels — choose wisely

July 31, 2012

A friend shared this with me today…too true: What’s the difference between a five-star hotel and an inexpensive motel? They both have a bed and a bathroom, of course, but that’s where the similarity ends. In a cheap motel you get the bare minimum: beyond a place to sleep and freshen up, you will be [...]

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REAL men don’t cheat (What world are you living in?)

July 9, 2012

I saw this quote on twitter from one of these women. (@GirlSpeaking, @SayingsForGirls and @girlnotes). I’m giving them a shout out. Don’t get mad at me, but you all need a guys perspective. I agree with some of your sayings, but disagree with a majority of them. The majority of the time women are not [...]

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Fan appreciation day on Wed, June 27 for my new eBook: Cover

June 26, 2012

My new Amazon Kindle Edition eBook will be made available FREE for one day on Wednesday, June 27. On June 27 I will post the link to download my free eBook. Vote below:

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Fan appreciation day on Wed, June 27 for my new eBook: Chapter: Being a player with morals

June 26, 2012

My new eBook will be made available free for one day on Wednesday, June 27. On June 27 I will be posting the link to download my free eBook. One of the chapters in the book is called, Being a player with morals. I have taken a lot of heat for this lately. I hear [...]

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