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October 18, 2012

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Why do you keep the truth from your ex?

September 16, 2012

I met my player’s ex-girlfriend and instead of telling her that the relationship he shares with me is important, amazing, and powerful he said we’re just friends. Why would someone not tell the truth (the full truth) unless they thought they had something to lose. People lie out of FEAR. That’s what happened here too. [...]

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How to get into the mind of a player

September 8, 2012

To get into the mind of a player. You have to study him. Realize the key of his very existence. What makes him tick? Men are not marrying women today, because they fail to really truly understand their man. Understanding a man does not require a lot of work. The key is not getting upset [...]

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How to stop sleeping with a playa and just be friends

September 8, 2012

Most women find that you can love a player more deeply as a friend then you can as a boyfriend. As a friend only, you can appreciate all the good and ignore or understand all the bad. There are no expectations and therefore there is no pain. As a boyfriend most women expect: respect, honesty, [...]

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Things you shouldn’t do to pick up a girl up in the library

August 9, 2012

I just witnessed a guy trying to pick up a girl in the library. I was in a row of desks that have internet access. The girl he was trying to pick up was to my right. He was sitting directly in front of her, blocked by the monitor. I saw him stand up and [...]

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Boxer or Briefs

August 7, 2012

Underwear makes the man. Our outward appearance or style is not always centered around what people can see. If you want to increase your style, then you have to start with your underwear. Last year I changed my style of dress to a more fitted look. I realized how this drastic change affected my underwear. [...]

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How not to get caught cheating

August 5, 2012

Not getting caught for a guy is all in his mind. His mind is strong and filled with being very cocky. He is very outspoken and has swagger. The key thing is that he is not afraid of being caught.  If he’s out with another woman and sees his main chick or her friend he [...]

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I conducted an experiment with my player….and it was horrible

August 3, 2012

Here was my experiment: For 7 days I did not react to anything he told me. No matter what it was, I loved him unconditionally and did not change my voice or my tone. I would then have a calm unemotional conversation about whatever it was he just told me, especially if it did bother [...]

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Is the side chick always jealous of the main chick?

August 3, 2012

My player thinks this is the case with me. He thinks that all of the stuff I keep bringing up regarding our relationship is related to her. I wouldn’t call it jealousy per se, but he is correct that I am tired of only having half of him. I have reached a point where I [...]

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Don’t ever expect your player to give you anything

August 2, 2012

Will I stay with my player or let the relationship go?  So much of this confusion is my issue. My player is happy: he gets his cake (i.e. main chick) and gets to eat it too (i.e. side chick). But, I have expectations of him. I have a desire for him to respect me and [...]

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