rejection

Too Close / Alex Clare

November 4, 2012

You know I’m not one to break promises I don’t want to hurt you but I need to breathe At the end of it all, you’re still my best friend But there’s something inside that I need to release Which way is right, which way is wrong How do I say that I need to [...]

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“Taking a break” in a relationship

October 6, 2012

When people hear that I’m “taking a break” they think its a bad thing. My friends view it as a sign that the relationship is over and that we’ve given up on each other. Sometimes I just need time away from the guy I’m dating. Sometimes I reach a point where he is causing me [...]

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Things you shouldn’t do to pick up a girl up in the library

August 9, 2012

I just witnessed a guy trying to pick up a girl in the library. I was in a row of desks that have internet access. The girl he was trying to pick up was to my right. He was sitting directly in front of her, blocked by the monitor. I saw him stand up and [...]

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Playlist for breaking up

July 3, 2012

Eamon’s – I don’t want  you back Avant – Separated Toni Braxton – Seven days,seven nights Tyrese – How you gonna act like that Vivian Green – Emotional Roller coaster Changing Faces – I could do bad all by myself Jagged Edge – Goodbye Ne-Yo – So sick Usher – You got it bad Monica [...]

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Is intimacy a filler for what is missing in our relationships? (True Blood Season 5/Episode 3)

June 25, 2012

I was watching True Blood with my bestie last night. We watched Season 5/Episode 3 and in the episode Jason goes through his own personal evolution and realizes something critical: intimacy has been his way of filling a gap in his relationships. This got me thinking. Players screw a lot of women. They need the [...]

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Players can’t commit – 10 questions to ask yourself if you’ve fallen in love with a player (post by Aimee)

June 8, 2012

If you are dating a player and hope he will commit then ask yourself these questions: 1. How many times have you told your friends you are in love with him and that he loves you as if saying it out loud makes it more true? 2. Have you had to explain to your friends [...]

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We’ve reached the climax: How to end it with a player (Usher/Climax) (post by Aimee)

May 25, 2012

Today, I ended it with a guy I was dating. I had been getting jealous and feeling insecure about the relationship because he wants to chase other women. He likes to go to events, hunt his prey, get their number, text them, call them, have dinner with them, and if they meet his criteria — [...]

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F*ck that nigga that you love so bad

May 15, 2012

A couple of weeks ago, I was working out in the gym. As I was walking to the weight area, I saw this guy looking at me from afar. I see him all the time in the gym, showing off his body. He says hello depending on what day it is, but we have never [...]

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When the love you feel isn’t returned

March 19, 2012

It is likely we have all felt this way but it still hurts. You connect with the person you believe, deep in your heart, is your equal. Your match. The one you are destined to meet. The one that has been yours in past lives and will be yours again after this life. And as [...]

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When you’re down and out…

February 10, 2012

Sometimes we, as people, get down and out about our current situation. Most of the time our situation is not as bad as we think it is. I wrote the message below to all those people that have bad days to tell you to keep your head up. You have so many people who love [...]

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