Saying Goodbye

I Won’t Give Up / Jason Mraz

November 11, 2012

I won’t give up on us Even if the skies get rough I’m giving you all my love I’m still looking up And when you’re needing your space To do some navigating I’ll be here patiently waiting To see what you find ‘Cause even the stars they burn Some even fall to the earth We’ve [...]

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“Taking a break” in a relationship

October 6, 2012

When people hear that I’m “taking a break” they think its a bad thing. My friends view it as a sign that the relationship is over and that we’ve given up on each other. Sometimes I just need time away from the guy I’m dating. Sometimes I reach a point where he is causing me [...]

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Battle of wills

September 24, 2012

What do you do when you both want different things in your relationship? Options: 1. End the relationship as friends and move on 2. Listen and understand the person’s need and accommodate them I am in a situation where I want something different than my player does. He and I talked about his fear and [...]

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Coming to terms with your ex

September 19, 2012

I was chatting with a friend today and realized something about my ex. Some days I think we should get back together. These are usually days when we are getting along and laughing together. I stat to reflect on all of the great moments we shared. I think to myself how awesome it would be [...]

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How to stop sleeping with a playa and just be friends

September 8, 2012

Most women find that you can love a player more deeply as a friend then you can as a boyfriend. As a friend only, you can appreciate all the good and ignore or understand all the bad. There are no expectations and therefore there is no pain. As a boyfriend most women expect: respect, honesty, [...]

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Men are the same in New York, London and Paris

August 10, 2012

I am in Paris (enjoying the view of the Eiffel Tower from my flat) and I have been loving every minute. But even though I am in the ‘most romantic city in the world’ it is fun to see men acting the same way as NYC and London. In London, while I was strolling down [...]

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Aimee Lane says goodbye

August 4, 2012

I’m not leaving the blog (what would you all do without me?). I’m not breaking up with my player (what would he do without me?). I am leaving the country for a vaca. I am off to Paris for a few weeks and I am leaving today. Yay! I am going with friends which means [...]

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I conducted an experiment with my player….and it was horrible

August 3, 2012

Here was my experiment: For 7 days I did not react to anything he told me. No matter what it was, I loved him unconditionally and did not change my voice or my tone. I would then have a calm unemotional conversation about whatever it was he just told me, especially if it did bother [...]

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Is the side chick always jealous of the main chick?

August 3, 2012

My player thinks this is the case with me. He thinks that all of the stuff I keep bringing up regarding our relationship is related to her. I wouldn’t call it jealousy per se, but he is correct that I am tired of only having half of him. I have reached a point where I [...]

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How long would you wait for your true love to come back? (Dirty Vegas / Days Go By)

July 29, 2012

Always love it when I stumble across this….the track is hot but the video is hotter. Every time I watch this I have to wonder how long would you wait? And, if she was the one why did you ever let her leave? Check out the old school dance moves as he waits for ‘the [...]

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