Soulmate

I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you

July 25, 2012

“I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.” -Paolo Coelho (The Alchemist) While I wish I was brilliant enough to create that quote on my own, it nonetheless represents how I feel about my player. There is love and there is love that you cannot control. It has a mind [...]

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Definition of love (six essential ingredients)

July 15, 2012

How do you define love? What is love? Does a player know how to love? Is a player capable of love? I was thinking about the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone (

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Love remains when you are not together….but only if you let it (post by Aimee)

June 23, 2012

“There could have been no two hearts so open, no tastes so similar, no feelings so in unison” ― Jane Austen Maybe its the pain meds I am taking from my surgery this morning but the Persuasion quote above has resonated deep within me today. It is so rare to connect with another on that [...]

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It’s written up in the stars for us (Pure)

May 31, 2012

This song finally just hit me. I think I have heard it over ten times. One day I finally listened to the words. If anyone is in love or has been in love you will appreciate this song. Tell the person you love, “Let’s just take our love and let it grow, because it’s written [...]

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We’ve reached the climax: How to end it with a player (Usher/Climax) (post by Aimee)

May 25, 2012

Today, I ended it with a guy I was dating. I had been getting jealous and feeling insecure about the relationship because he wants to chase other women. He likes to go to events, hunt his prey, get their number, text them, call them, have dinner with them, and if they meet his criteria — [...]

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All the reasons I loved you (post by Aimee)

May 14, 2012

I loved that you always gave and never asked for anything in return I loved your ability to laugh and joke I loved that you were always late I loved that you trusted me enough to try anything (once) I loved that I trusted you enough to let myself go and believe in what we [...]

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When we argue (post by Aimee)

May 12, 2012

We don’t lose respect for each other; We try to listen and be compassionate; We try to understand each others perspective; We try to learn from each other; We grow and evolve personally and within the relationship. Our love grows deeper for each other when we argue; Every love has pain; There is an opposite [...]

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Do players love being in love? (post by Aimee)

May 1, 2012

Ohhh, this is my favorite topic. I love to talk about love. I love thinking about love. I love being in love. What I dislike is being in a relationship with all the baggage and ish and drama and mundane crap that we have to deal with. I love the new feeling, the passion, the [...]

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Definition of a great relationship

March 23, 2012

I spoke with a wise woman today, what you might call a sage, and I always turn to her for relationship guidance. She has been with her man for a blissful 20 years. In my opinion, she has earned the title of teacher. My question to her was what is a great relationship? I know [...]

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When the love you feel isn’t returned

March 19, 2012

It is likely we have all felt this way but it still hurts. You connect with the person you believe, deep in your heart, is your equal. Your match. The one you are destined to meet. The one that has been yours in past lives and will be yours again after this life. And as [...]

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