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Oral Sex….WOW!

October 10, 2012

I have a friend who just realized how amazing oral sex can be. In my opinion she is an oral sex virgin. She has only had it 3 times before: once with college boyfriend once with post college boyfriend and once a couple years ago with a guy she thought about marrying (she told me [...]

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Battle of wills

September 24, 2012

What do you do when you both want different things in your relationship? Options: 1. End the relationship as friends and move on 2. Listen and understand the person’s need and accommodate them I am in a situation where I want something different than my player does. He and I talked about his fear and [...]

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Why do you keep the truth from your ex?

September 16, 2012

I met my player’s ex-girlfriend and instead of telling her that the relationship he shares with me is important, amazing, and powerful he said we’re just friends. Why would someone not tell the truth (the full truth) unless they thought they had something to lose. People lie out of FEAR. That’s what happened here too. [...]

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Men always get caught

September 12, 2012

I have a friend who lies constantly and thinks no one knows the truth. But I found out the truth about this friend’s lie and it has helped me realize the kind of person this friend really is. I understand his inner core and his moral fiber better than ever. I see that his insecurity, [...]

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I conducted an experiment with my player….and it was horrible

August 3, 2012

Here was my experiment: For 7 days I did not react to anything he told me. No matter what it was, I loved him unconditionally and did not change my voice or my tone. I would then have a calm unemotional conversation about whatever it was he just told me, especially if it did bother [...]

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Arguments are never just about the number of condoms in the drawer

July 23, 2012

My player and I had a discussion today about the number of condoms in his condom drawer. He was annoyed that I would not believe him when he said that one isn’t missing and that he isn’t sexing around. The irony in all of this is that I do believe he isn’t sexing beyond what [...]

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Relationships evolve…..even with a player

July 19, 2012

Everything changes, especially relationships and if you don’t let them evolve, you run the risk of destroying them. This is true with our family members as well as with our lovers. We need to keep communicating, continue talking, work through the tough issues that we keep sweeping under the rug. We have to respect each [...]

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Some days I think my player isn’t in love with me….

July 18, 2012

My player will probably read this post title and be annoyed because we have already had this discussion (twice) and we have worked out that he is in love with me (and I believe him). If you have doubt then talk it out. Here is a quick recap of the doubts I had: There are [...]

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Definition of love (six essential ingredients)

July 15, 2012

How do you define love? What is love? Does a player know how to love? Is a player capable of love? I was thinking about the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone (

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Realistic marriage – Money

July 10, 2012

1) Whats yours is mine and whats mine is mine: Money is important. You should not get married if you don’t have money. Most of the time women want a man to spend money of them. Women must have the following when they get married, house car and kids. All of that cost a lot [...]

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