What women are thinking

Sometimes life is good and you don’t want to change it….

October 12, 2012

Most of my post over the last year have been about changing this and changing that. I have written countless posts of how my friends fill my head with nonsense about people I date and then how their comments trigger insecurities within my relationships resulting in drama. But I have stopped talking to my friends [...]

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Women fake orgasms….

October 5, 2012

Found this to be hilarious. True or not we’ve all been there and done it at least once.

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5 words you never want to hear your woman say

September 29, 2012

I’m not sure who to thank for writing this, but THANK YOU! My favorite is the bonus word….and with exactly that meaning behind it. 5. FINE This is the word women use to end an argument when she knows she is right and you need to shut the f*ck up. 4. NOTHING “Nothing” always means [...]

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Never go out on your first date after church with a black woman

August 20, 2012

Last week I was eating dinner with my boy and my best friend. My boy was telling me prior to that week that he met this amazing woman in the dentist office. He was just going for a regular check-up and to his surprise this woman was just hired as the receptionist. He felt an amazing vibe [...]

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How to make your spirit orgasm

August 18, 2012

While on twitter. I stumbled across this great article written by (@BeRealBlack4Me): http://www.bootiesbooksandtheblues.blogspot.com/2012/06/oversimplification-of-sexual-energy.html I got this great line from the article above: “but in order to make your spirit cum, the physical climax is just one, ancillary, aspect of the experience. Spiritual arousal is that connection two people share even before they have met, that endures even [...]

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5 Tips to making your woman feel loved

August 14, 2012

Secrets for making your woman feel loved. This notion is the secret to success for any man when dealing with a woman. I have been hearing this for many years from women, “be nice and compliment me and I will give you the world”. This shit is so hard, because you never do it at [...]

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He cheated and you forgave him….but you’re not really over it!

August 13, 2012

My friend was telling me that her husband cheated and she caught him and they worked it out and he left his mistress and she forgives him. She says this as if she means it, but I know she doesn’t. I believe that deep in her heart she WANTS to forgive him, but her actions [...]

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The power of multiple sex positions

August 12, 2012

I didn’t realize how much women like multiple sex positions. Women often say to me, “my past men never put me in as many sexual positions as you. It turns me on and I love it.”  I love to hear  these statements. Recently I started to equate sex to working out in the gym. I [...]

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Men are the same in New York, London and Paris

August 10, 2012

I am in Paris (enjoying the view of the Eiffel Tower from my flat) and I have been loving every minute. But even though I am in the ‘most romantic city in the world’ it is fun to see men acting the same way as NYC and London. In London, while I was strolling down [...]

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I conducted an experiment with my player….and it was horrible

August 3, 2012

Here was my experiment: For 7 days I did not react to anything he told me. No matter what it was, I loved him unconditionally and did not change my voice or my tone. I would then have a calm unemotional conversation about whatever it was he just told me, especially if it did bother [...]

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