What to do when an EX comes back into your life

by Aimee Lane on July 21, 2012 · 2 comments

I got a call tonight from an ex that I haven’t heard from in over a year. He was a hottie that I dated in my early 20s and lost track of when I moved to NYC. He moved to Europe and is back in the states and interested in getting together. So what does one do when an ex resurfaces and you’re in a committed, albeit open, relationship?

My player is mad cool and doesn’t get bothered by my exs and my shiny new toys the same way I do. He says he is confident that I will never meet anyone as amazing as him so he doesn’t need to worry. While his arrogance is off-putting his accuracy is spot on. I believe its true that I will never meet another man like him who has had such an emotional and spiritual impact on my life.

Of course, I will discuss this with him, but for now, if I assume he is cool with everything then I need to make the decision on what to do. Should I have dinner or shouldn’t I?

It is easy to get addicted to the drama or excitement of this situation. It is easy to feed the ego and feel good. But why would I? My ego is solid. In yoga (or any physical activity) when we push ourselves our ego is in there controlling us, telling us its ok to stop and to do what is easy, giving us ways to justify walking away so the ego can be at peace. But, I have closure with this ex. I do not need to prove anything to him. I do not have an old grudge. I do not need to win him back only to prove to myself I’m amazing. I already know I am. I have enough self-love to move away from this proposition and continue doing what is healthy. These temptations will always be there both for me and my player. It is how we handle them that keeps us strong.

Love ya!

Aimee Lane

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MARY December 11, 2012 at 8:15 pm

am Mary and i want to thank Dr.OKAN for bringing back my ex boyfriend, we broke up for more than 8 month and he told me that he will never want to see me in his life again. i love him so much to the extend that i could not think of deating any man again, i was confused and depress due to the love i had for him.i did everything i could do to have him come back to me but all went in vain. so i decided to contact a spell caster, i did not believe in spell casting i just want to try it may be it would work out for me. i contacted dr OKAN for help,and he told me that he have to cast a love spell on him, i told him to do it. after 5 days my boyfriend called me and started to apologize for leaving me and also he told me that he still love me. i was very happy and i thank DR OKAN for helping get back my ex back to my hands. his spell is the greatest of all over the world, it was the love spell he cast on my ex that make him come back to me. all you ladies who want back their ex back i want you to contact Dr.OKAN for the return of your ex boyfriend and also your ex girlfriend he can also cast any kind of spell you want him to cast for you. his contact email is OKANLOVESPELLHOME@GMAIL.COM just try him and their will be a solution to your case.

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Casper "Flash" Jones January 19, 2013 at 3:56 pm

A spell caster that’s something new. Please keep me updated if your ex stays. The reason why people are an ex, because something didn’t work out. Don’t ignore those signs. A spell probably can make him come back, but it cannot fix those issues.

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